A All Country Dating Site for widows - All girls would never consider you attractive if you are weak. They will look pass through you. Use this guide to turn some of the most embarrassing weaknesses when dating girls into some of your biggest strength. It's no secret, if a girl finds out that you are a weak guy, she would never date you, even if you were the last guy on earth and humanity depended on her.
Girls are very picky about guys they want to date. Some people will tell you that girls are interested only in the psychological side of guys, it's true, but they will judge this side by the way you behave and deal with your weaknesses. Dating girls is a hard experience, if you fail at it, it would be a harsh blow to your self-esteem. You have to turn your weaknesses into strength.
· The first weakness when dating girls that you have to turn into strength is lack of things to talk about
Have you ever been in this situation? You were both talking and then, nothing, you kept looking at the flour or something else, and she keeps looking at her shoes or playing with something in her hand. This is what we call the killer silence.
Why killer? Because every minute you pass in this silence will kill your chances with her. This is something most guys are afraid of and consider to be a tremendous weakness. To turn it into a huge benefit to you, try to use the powerful silence on her:
When she stops talking and you have nothing to say or talk about, ask her how she is feeling about something she is experiencing or a show. When she starts talking, simply paraphrase back what she says to you.
Her: "I don't like that actor, he seems so nerdy"
You: "ahh, you don't feel to like that guy, he seems so boring and lacking social skills"
You don't need to think about something huge of highly interesting, girls are big talkers, the minute you do this with her; she will overwhelm you with her stories...
· The second weakness when dating girls that you have to turn into strength is looks
Very few guys will look perfect to girls. There is always something to be messed with in guys. This can be even more dangerous if you have something like, fat, hair loss, acne. Girls can be very unsure about guys with such things. This is the reason that you need to make it into strength. Let's say you are fat. Most guys will try to hide it by wearing black or wearing tight cloths. This is the wrong thing to do; she will pick it as a great weakness in you. The great thing to do is to show it by making fun of it. You can tell her that you are worried these days, she will tell you:
Her: why?
You: I've been losing some weight lately.
Her: what, this is a great thing!
You: no, it's not, do you know how much money I've putted in this thing alone (point at you belly).