Make eye contact and hold it. If your eyes are shifting a lot it shows nervousness.
Make sure your gestures are slow and controlled. Many people make fast movements when they are nervous.
Also, lean back while sitting and try not to cross your legs or arms.
All of this portrays confidence. Practice this if you need to, it can take some getting used to. But remember body language is a HUGE part of communication. All of this will help.
6) Try to take her somewhere fun or different - Let's face it. Dinner and a movie is so predictable. I love going out for dinner. I still consider that a great date. But make sure the restaurant is unique or interesting.
Where I live we have a restaurant owned by a gay couple who collect rooster memorabilia. The whole place is covered with roosters and the owners are off the wall. It makes for a unique and fun dining experience.
Maybe there is a cool market you can take her to. Or a festival in town. Think of places where she most likely has never gone to with a guy.
And it also helps to go to more than one place. Venue changes help to make her feel comfortable with you as it gives the impression you have experienced more together. It also makes it feel like she has gone on an adventurous date.
7) Do not think that spending money on her will impress her. If you just start spending truckloads of cash on her on dinners, shows and flowers it gives off a real signal that you are chasing her.
It's OK to buy her a meal if you offered to do so, but don't offer to pay for absolutely everything. Remember, she likes to be challenged and you want her guessing whether or not you are interested in her.
8) Have fun - Ok, this one seems obvious. But it really is important. I always approach a date as though I am going to enjoy myself. I might not "dig" the girl, but I am still going to go out and have a good time.
I love women for obvious reasons. I also genuinely like their company, even if I am not attracted to them as more than "just friends". Approach all your dates as though you are going to have fun regardless of whether the two of you "click" and you will have an edge.
There you have it. By keeping these rules in dating girls in mind not only do you have a much better chance of making your date heavily attracted to you, but you will also enjoy yourself more. It's a win-win!
